We are taking a closer look at the Fruit of the Spirit; last week, we looked at Peace. This week we are looking at the fruit of patience. Most people struggle with having patience, including myself at times. We struggle with trusting God with the timeline of our lives, and we feel that we know that now is the right time for whatever it is that we are waiting for – a godly Christian husband, a family member to come to Christ, a baby, a new car, or something else. In any case, we struggle with waiting on God to move. We can try to fake having patience, which is maybe not sharing our frustration with waiting on the outside while still being miserable while waiting on the inside. However, that is not true Gospel Patience. The Holy Spirit is the One who develops the fruits of the Spirit in us, and we cannot produce this on our own. We rely fully on Him for this to grow, but we can add this through obedience to Christ (not a working for our salvation but from our salvation). The full list of the fruit of the Spirit is found in Scripture:
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.”
Galatians 5:22-23 (NASB)
Gospel Patience
Today, we will look at how the Holy Spirit builds patience in our hearts and continues developing it in our lives. We must believe in the Gospel of Jesus Christ to have patience begin growing in our lives.
God so loved the world in this one particular way – He sent His Son Jesus to live a sinless life on earth, to die on the cross taking the punishment for sin (also called substitutionary atonement) and paying the debt we incurred when we sinned. By believing in Christ for salvation and repenting of our sins (agreeing with God that sin is sin), we are then able to have the hope of eternal life with God through Christ Jesus. This is the ONLY way; there is no other. (You can see John 3:16-17; Romans 3:23-25; Romans 5:8; Romans 10:9-10; 1 Corinthians 15:3-4; 2 Corinthians 5:21; 1 Timothy 1:15; 1 Timothy 2:5-6; 1 Peter 2:24-25; 1 Peter 3:18).
Then, when we believe in Christ for salvation, we are granted the Holy Spirit and are sealed with Him. This is when the transformation (or sanctification) begins, where the Holy Spirit begins to make us more and more like Christ everyday. Through that process, He produces His fruit in our lives (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control). The process involves: reading the Bible, prayer, being active in a local church that preaches sound doctrine, living in such a way that glorifies Christ, repenting each day as we sin yet again and fighting against that sin, and doing the good deeds that God has prepared for us (see Romans 8).
Patience
What is patience, and how do we have more of it in our lives? The world pushes patience away when it offers 24 months with 0% interest and 0 payments; the world encourages people to pursue instant gratification. Another way that the world creates a false patience is by saying that there will not be consequences. The world mocks believers and God by asking “Where is the promise of His coming?” However, true patience believes God and asks to grow in wisdom, maturity, and patience. My uncle wisely told my cousin years ago:
Maturity is the ability to postpone pleasure.
My Uncle Bill
When we grow in maturity in Christ, we are able to postpone pleasure and understand that we can wait for the answer to our question, we can wait for our circumstances to change, and we can wait on God’s timeline. Christ has shown us an example of how to wait patiently; one such example was His great patience that He had with Jerusalem and Israel who rejected Him, and then even with the patience that He showed them, He knew that the time had come for the consequences of their rejection of Him. Jesus lamented over their stubbornness and rejection of Him:
“Jerusalem, Jerusalem, who kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to her! How often I wanted to gather your children together, the way a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, and you were unwilling. Behold, your house is being left to you desolate! For I say to you, from now on you will not see Me until you say, ‘Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord.'”
Matthew 23:37-39 (NASB)
It is our faith in Christ that helps us grow in patience. When we believe that Christ is who He says He is, Lord, we are then changed more into Christ’s image. When we believe that Christ is presently reigning, we can set aside our need to be in charge and our need to have things happen on our timeline. We can trust that Christ will accomplish everything that needs to happen when the Father has told Him to do it.
This type of patience can help us take a deep breath and face whatever may come our way – persecution, troubles, trials, and waiting.
As we go through these next few weeks of delving into what the Fruit of the Spirit is in our lives as believers, reflect on how you can grow more in the Fruit of the Spirit. Yes, the Holy Spirit is ultimately the one who grows the fruit in you and me, but you and I have a responsibility to meditate (fill our minds with, not empty our minds) on God’s Word on what patience and each fruit of the Spirit is. What is one way that you and I can show patience in Christ this week?
Join in on the conversation!
I always love hearing from my readers, so feel free to comment on this post.
- What fruit of the Spirit do you hope to grow more in?
- What fruit of the Spirit do you want to learn more about?
- What fruit of the Spirit do you struggle most with?
- How may I pray for you? (If you would like to private message me a prayer request, please feel free to message me via Instagram, Facebook, or X.com. I will gladly pray for you.)
- What are your favorite examples of patience in the Bible?
- Who is someone in your life that has a deep patience in Christ?